So What is self defense? Today's post is from Kasia and Kirk, Harbor members and self defense instructors. This is something everyone should read!
What comes to mind when you hear the phrase “self defense” or “self protection”? Associations range from a picture of a martial artist breaking timber blocks, to fights in movies and finally to an instructor in a heavy suit yelling obscenities and attacking his students. The associations are almost never pleasant and often threatening. It is simple - self-defense and self-protection implies a lack of security and presence of a threat. But if we prepare ourselves to address a threat and teach ourselves to be aware we can live our lives with the comfort of knowing that we are ready should the unlikely happen.
So, even though unpleasant, why is self-defense and self-protection so important? Why would you consider taking a class that is, most likely, going to make you uncomfortable, vulnerable and most of all may have you start considering the unthinkable? It is not because statistics are scary: 1 in 6 women will become a victim of a violent crime in their lifetime; women are more likely to be attacked than men; violent crime in Madison has been steady increasing. It is because the unthinkable may happen. Our only shield is our knowledge and our preparedness. So where and how do we start?
Self Protection is simple – be attentive, vigilant, listen to your intuition and you should be able to avoid the majority of unwanted situations. Once in a possibly threatening situation, you can use simple moves and your body’s natural response to gain the upper hand and get away to safety. We made simplicity and effectiveness a big part of our teaching philosophy, but our ultimate goal is to help the class participants realize and access their own strength and determination. You are more capable than you think and no matter what the circumstances, you can always do something; you have the right to protect yourself; you have the strength to do it.
Self-awareness is not a journey; it is a state of mind….
Kasia and Kirk have been Harbor members for a number of years. You can see them lifting weights in the weight room and practicing self-defense in the gym. Kirk, a former Marine, bodybuilder and power lifter worked as a Private Security Person and a bouncer. He is currently an instructor and First Degree Black Belt in Tae Kwon Do. Kasia has a martial arts background, but her interest in self-defense has more to do with being a woman and understanding the vulnerabilities of the “weaker sex”.



